The Low Down on the "Down Low" Dude

When I was first  made aware of what it meant to be "Down-Low" I was astonished at the duplicity in behavior....yet I like so many others let it go as a petty inconvenience.  In fact I convinced myself that the only masculine man who possessed the strength of a man of which is what I desire in any man of whom I date.   The whole down-low phenomenon is getting to the point of being falsely associated with manhood, manly deeds and strength.  First let me speak to the lie and say to all men who wear the title down-low directly, "  If you are down-low?  that is your damn problem not mine?  First you are not a celebrity, superstar and not that damn important and thus why the need for you to believe obviously that your privacy and discretion is more important than mine?  Who the fuck are you but a damn LIE? Which is why I never got the fact that a dude is willing to share his ass, or his dick and including other things but will not give you his full name.  What man of substance will lay up and lay down with a man or woman and he does not have the decency to provide his name?  If your circumstances merit that you cannot risk being caught cheating by your wife or boyfriend then you should consider getting a hobby or finding something else to do with your life rather than injecting others with such vile behavior...I am not impressed by the down-low.  

Therefore I offer my final affirmation on the "Down-Low" and hope that this may serve as a guideline for the dumb "sissy" and yes only a "dumb" and "sissy" would fall for the foolishness presented by men who consider it a badge of honor that they are down-low.   The down-low dude is a damn coward.....he has/she has chosen to rape an already sick and healing community of young men and women willing to go along to get along.  These individuals add to the negative image and stereotype that exists and is indicative of the fact that 90% of us do not look "gay" and thus these individuals believe that they deserve to have their name, privacy and discretion more valued over that of another MAN's privacy.   For example, you find them requesting that you send your digits....I never fall for that shit either.lol   This sort of trash only come to rape and pillage individuals dumb enough to fall prey to their treachery.  Then after getting their needs fulfilled regularly they creep back into their comfortable little "straight"  fake made for TV life.  To add insult to injury they are the first niggard to talk smack about "punks" at the club or at the gym, thinking their manhood to be intact and unblemished.   Know that this unstable confused person can only make your life unstable and confused.  If I had the misfortune of being down-low then in fact I would really believe myself to be that "punk" and "faggot" that slips from the mouths of many from time to time.   This type of talk most often comes from another homosexual and not a heterosexual "straight" dude from my experience.   The true face of the DL Man is one who is a COWARD, SELFISH and a USER, just to name a few adjectives that befit such punks....

Don't get me wrong, all grown men and women should have been taught and trained by their fathers and mothers to be discrete when it comes to certain aspects of their daily life.  I support and encourage the right and the expectation that all men and women are entitled to privacy and discretion.  For example, when I walk in the room I don't tell folk that I am a "Black Man", but clearly everyone sees that I am indeed a "Black Man."  Therefore, why should I go out of my way to lie, alter or misguide folk who already know, don't care and don't give a damn? 

That DL dude is like an adulterous woman who sits at the table and eats her fill, gets up from the table....then wipes her mouth and proclaims that she has eaten nothing.  DL due harm to themselves and they collectively have done more harm to the soul and character of the homosexual community than is realized.   The devastation wrought by the behavior can be found throughout our community.  

Lying about who you are and then going to unnatural lengths to cover up the behavior inevitably is no at Strength, it is a Weakness.   Moreover, anybody who encourages and facilitates one to live a lie or be ashamed of living the "Truth" is not "Straight in fact they are "Crooked".   However, the irony in the whole matter is that it has never been a true blue heterosexual that ever has a problem with a man of my character and demeanor.  Which is why I am comfortable with straight men and have the privilege of calling them my friend.  The man who calls out the "punk" is most certainly that "down-low" motherfucker, struggling with the fear of being found out by his "Home Boys". 

No smart and wise man believes that living a life filled with lies and cover-ups invites love, joy and peace into their life.  In fact we must live our truth, rejoice and be thankful to God who created and designed us to be homosexual.  Who would ridicule the good work and craftsmanship of God the Great Architect of all the Universe?   I don't desire to argue doctrine, for I do not need words written by men to know and be intimately acquainted with the truth that lives and reigns within my soul.  By the way you cannot argue with the Truth anyway....it just is the truth.  The only folk who are going to have a problem with you living the truth is those individuals living a lie..

So if you are Down-Low and of course you are the only person who would know who you are,....since you are so damned "Down Low".   That DL Mofo shows up at the door lying and then some low self-esteem homosexuals becomes their victim.  The community seems to idolize this DL, weak individual like he is "King Dingaling"...a real man when in fact he is merely a reflection of a man.  You could say that  they are in sort of like "reverse" drag queens.  They come in with their fake swag and wear the clothes, talk the jive but  be certain that they still ain't the real deal at the end of the day. That DL man is lying to themselves.... lying to some woman and more than likely some man/men.

I know some will say that it is being "out there" or none of folks business who one sleeps with and that sound "about right" to some, but for me I strongly understand that homosexual men more than ever before need to stand and lead our community, and the young gay men and women who will continue to be born to heterosexual men and women out of the imprisonment of our minds, fear and persecution that is cultivating unhealthy behavior which weaken and destroys the community on person at a time.

As for me and my house we shall serve the Lord, therefore I will not share myself with a DL individual...  When one does lays with these unclean spirits one is infected with their unstable and confused spirit.  It speaks to the character of a MAN that would want to live down-low....My mother taught me at the age of five, and I follow this advice to this very day..."If you got to hide and sneak in order to do something then you should not be doing what you are doing in the first damn place...."